Do You Suspect Your Child is Doing Drugs? Tips for Parents

1. Lock Your Liquor Cabinet

Brandon started on his course with alcohol and drugs at about the age of 13 when his parents went out of town and he decided to raid their liquor cabinet. He chose the clear liquor because it was the easiest to replace with water.

2. The Most Trusting Parents are Easiest to Take Advantage

Brandon lied to his parents a lot. He’d tell them he was going out to eat, bowling, or to a movie, when instead he was headed to a party to get drunk. When he came home late, some of his excuses were: he ran out of gas, he had to take some girl home who lived on the other side of town, there was a huge accident so the road was blocked, etc.

3. Double Check the Alarm System

Even though Brandon’s parents had an alarm system in their house, he was able to find a loophole to get out of the house past curfew time. Brandon often used his fire escape ladder to get out his bedroom window and to the ground.

4. Check Their Bedrooms

Good places to look for drugs: under mattresses, under dressers, under cabinets, or even attached to the back of the drawers. Brandon’s favorite place was in his closet, inside pockets of clothes and jeans he never wore.

5. Take a Close Look at Your Child

To cover up the physical signs that he was using drugs, Brandon would pull his hat down over his eyes, put gum in his mouth, and put Visine in his eyes to take away any redness. When he came home, he would avoid conversation by giving his parents short yes or no answers.

6. Don’t think your child is too young to be exposed to drugs and alcohol

The first time Brandon smoked marijuana, he was 16, and knew a lot of people who were already smoking it. By the time he was 18, he was smoking and drinking on a daily basis.

7. Know Your Child’s Friends

Brandon says if a kid won’t bring their friends over to the house to hang out with their parents and get to know them a little better, they most likely have something to hide.

8. Consider Where They are Getting Drugs

Brandon says kids usually start by getting their drugs through their friends, eventually building up a network of dealers whom they meet at a convenient location. Brandon often got his drugs in parking lots such as fast-food restaurants, superstores, gas stations, and movie theaters.

9. Check Your Child’s Attendance Record at School

Brandon used to skip school to go get high. He’d leave early, arrive late, and sometimes not show up at all. He’d forge notes from his mom, or steal passes from the school office.

10. Are You Paying for Your Child’s Drugs?

Brandon’s parents would give him money to buy clothes or eat out, and he’d save that money to spend on drugs.

11. Check Your Child’s Vehicle After a Friday or Saturday Night

If they were smoking in their vehicle, you can usually smell a strange odor coming out of it. Check for small pieces of joints — green leaf-like particles or seeds on the floorboards or seats. Look for white pasty substances on CDs, CD cases, dashboards, pictures, or mirrors, that they might be doing drugs off of.

12. Look Through Their Pockets, Purses, Wallets, Cellphones, and Backpacks

Ask for permission, but if they’re mad that you’re looking through their stuff, it may be because they have something to hide.

13. Give Your Kids a Random Drug Test

Make sure it’s after a weekend.

14. Look for Physical Signs

When drug use takes a toll, you may notice a rapid loss of weight, paleness of the skin, discoloration, dark circles under the eyes, shaky hands, dropping grades, more absences from school than you know about, sudden mood changes, a rise in anger at family members.

Develop an Open, strong and trusting relationship with your child, one without judgment.

Brandon says it’s the best fence a parent can put around their child. Don’t get angry with what your child comes to you and tells you, or the next time they won’t share with you what’s going on in their life. Give them advice and maybe they’ll make a better choice in the future.

What Philip Seymour Hoffman’s Tragic Death Can Teach Us About Addiction

The passing of actor Philip Seymour Hoffman serves as a reminder of the dangers faced by recovering addicts. Though there has been much speculation, what is clear is that Hoffman has been abstinent for many years following an addiction to heroin in his earlier years.

It’s Easy To Cast Blame Towards An Addict
What Philip Seymour Hoffman’s Tragic Death Can Teach Us About Addiction
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Hoffman’s road to stardom was riddled with choice and intent. These factors, however, were not at the root of the actor’s demise. Still, it’s easy for many to cast blame towards an individual whose death stems from heroin use. How, people say, could such a talented person risk his life and career with such an awful decision? How could someone prioritize drugs over family?

Statements like these only echo years of misunderstanding surrounding addiction and recovery, and are simply off target. The fact of the matter is: Choice has nothing to do with addiction – a disease that affects the brain, and slowly takes hold of an individual.

Choosing To Seek Treatment
Once people decide to stop using, whether on their own or with the aid of a drug addiction treatment facility, the tolerance developed throughout their use history subsides. Previously acceptable doses become lethal. The compulsive nature of cocaine, alcohol and heroin use impairs their judgment and ability to moderate.

The actor completed detox in 2013 to address a prescription drug problem that escalated to mild heroin use. Hoffman reportedly only used heroin for a week’s period before realizing he needed help.

Could Relapse Happen To Me?
Hoffman’s death hits home for many of us at the Touchstone Ranch equine therapy center. The shock and sorrow of losing a gifted actor quickly gives way to more personal questions: What does this mean for me, the recovering addict? Is my sobriety easier to lose than I acknowledge? Could this happen to me?

Unfortunately, relapse is a threat we all must address at some point in recovery. Whether you’ve enjoyed years of sobriety or are currently researching rehab centers in Texas for the first time, the struggle to maintain sobriety is one we all must live with. Though an addict can be in recovery, their addiction can only be managed. One step forward… one day at a time.

If you or a loved one are ready to start the healthy and happy lifestyle of long-term recovery, contact Touchstone Recovery Center now at 888-988-5402